Sexual Performance Doesn't Make You a Top (or a Bottom)   Sexual performance is a touchy subject, no pun intended. We all get older. And as we do some things change. Sometimes things don't work as well as they used to. I've had a lot of men come to me and apologize, up and down, about how they're not as hard as they used to be, or can't keep it as long, or otherwise. A lot of those men ask to bottom for me, feeling that they're no longer good for anything else, but at least a strong, sexy trans woman can...

The Assertive and Controlling Woman - Where Dominance Meets Intense Sexuality   "I want you to dominate me," says the client. "So you want me to tie you up?" I respond. "Oh, no, i'm too nervous about bondage." "Perhaps pain is more your thing then?" "Oh no, definitely not pain!" "Fetish clothing perhaps - you want to be my little sissy, or wrapped in latex?" "I think that's too extreme for me." "Perhaps you're more service oriented? Instead of all the trappings you just want to kneels at my feet and worship me?" "Well maybe a little but eventually I was hoping you'd use me for your pleasure?" "So you want...

Followup - Why Do You Want to See an Escort?   A couple of weeks ago, I published an blog post encouraging you, my amazing customers, to reflect on what really motivates you to see an escort. And boy did you! What interested me was how many people started the conversation with "I don't know." It was clear they'd never thought about it before but now that I was pushing them to, they were intrigued. We talked, and I would make suggestions, and sometimes they would nod and say 'yeah, maybe'. Some just liked that I was uninhibited of course, and felt like being with...

Erotic Fantasy - Naughty Lingerie Saleswoman   Another of my naughty fantasies revolves around a lingerie store. In my fantasy, I have a lovely little boutique. It' s the kind of place you look for an anniversary present for your wife if you're hoping to get lucky that night. Some of my clients are men, buying for their wives or girlfriends, and of course I'm always eager to assist them. I pride myself on service, and that includes modeling the lingerie! We both agree it's "just so you can get an idea of what it'll look like", and head to the back room. I...

I Have a Boyfriend - My Cock   My boyfriend is terribly demanding. He wants constant attention. Anytime he gets aroused he insists I please him straight away, lavishing attention on him. He comes with me everywhere, too. There's no getting away from him. And sometimes he gets needy at the most inconvenient times. And of course he joins me in bed every night! He has a one track mind, too. Art and culture aren't big hits with him; all he cares about is getting laid. Honestly, sometimes I don't know why I put up with him! But then, he does know how to treat...