As for me…
I have committed myself to a life of helping others. As early as my teen years, I wanted to be a psychiatrist.
My academic background started with achieving a B.A.in a combined specialized psychology degree with a minor in undergraduate law. I then went on to complete a 4 year advanced business program (in 2 years) through my employer and community college. Further I loved the field of computers so I completed a 10 course computer studies program at another community college.
Other noteworthy training included: a reflexology course from the pedorthic association, cosmetic and skin care courses with MAC and other cosmetic brands, yoga and mindfulness training. I also delved into shoe styling and producing hand made footwear, fire fighting training, and more.
All areas of my studies, training , practice, most jobs and life fulfillment have come from working with others to help them, help others, or serve mankind in one way or another. This keeps in line with one of the most selfless ambitions in life, addressing our life’s purpose.
My academic education, rich life experiences and on the job training, have all helped to make me very well qualified to provide consulting, coaching, tutoring and mentoring. My focus is on the areas i know best, transgender issues, cross-dressing, transformation and sexual identification.
Through coaching, tutoring and mentoring, I have helped countless numbers of men – in particular trans women – in navigating their lives and finding solutions to their individual questions and concerns. This kind of work has given me a very strong sense of pride and achievement. I have often experienced tears of joy from the very positive feedback that I get from my clients.
I get a great deal of satisfaction through discussion and interaction/engagement into the areas our journey takes us, exploring sexuality, gender, erotica, play and lifestyle.
I may have an individual who is so confused about who and what they are. I see them daily. They may often be very concerned about their given labels or their life’s direction. They live with the fear and judgment of others every day. Being able to engage in verbal, intellectual discussion about wants, needs, desires, fantasies, lust, sex and erotic lifestyles in a safe and private environment is crucial and is what I do best.
For example, I have often had someone who is bi curious come over to explore what his desires, only to find out that what they are seeking is personal development or understanding not physical or sexual touch. They leave completely satisfied with their time with me, even though we spent the majority of our time together in discussion and discovery. This will often happen with couples I see as well.
I make sure every client that walks thru my door is very happy with my services and I truly stand behind the quality of standard I provide as being profession, supportive, engaging, and in complete awareness of the big picture.
You will very hard pressed to find another “service provide” who has developed the array of interconnected disciplines and life experiences I have.
“All people, myself included, are on a life journey. I simply help them with that…from where they are to where they want to be.”