SERIOUS SUBMISSION   We've talked before about bottoming and why I love bending over, but serious submission is something else entirely. Beyond just receiving penetration, it's a much deeper surrender of control. To me, it also means something different from pure S&M. Allowing another person to cause you pain is absolutely a deep act of trust, don't get me wrong, and can be a beautiful show of submission. But it's not my thing. I'm just not much of a pain slut. My form of submission is a little different.   Bondage   Something I do love is bondage. The surrender of control as ropes bind me tighter...