Escort: The “Hi” Guy

2021 Jan 21, | Consulting, Escort, General

Escort: The “Hi” Guy

Think, before you text me “Hi”!

With the rise of social media, and texting, I and other providers have found a certain type of booking request has become more and more prevalent. I call them “the Hi guys”. They are the men who open a conversation with a provider simply with “Hi” and no other information. What does that even mean?
The problem is that “Hi” gives me nothing to work with. What do you want? What are you offering to pay for it? Any limits I should know? At least give me a name!
I know that some men are nervous. And I know that frankly, some guys are just texting a dozen providers a minute seeing who answers first. It’s the 21st century, stuff moves fast, and I get that. But I like clients to give me some indication of what they’re looking for in the session!
In honor of these pithy would-be customers, here is a brief list of things that goes through my head when I see the message “hi” from a new client, and nothing else:

• Is that your current state of consciousness?
• Would you like it to be?
• Are you curious how to get there?
• Are you offering to help me get there?
• Now that it’s legal, do i really need to have a weed guy anymore?
• Perhaps those are just your initials?
• Is that an acronym (they’re always coming up with new ones in this business)?
• Did you get in a car accident before you could finish your text?
• Where do I send the flowers?
• Don’t text and drive!
• Is this the full extent of what you need to say to me at this moment?
• Is English, perhaps, a language you have trouble with?

What do I want, then? Surely I don’t expect clients to write me a novel? No, of course not! All I expect is a simple, direct indication of what kinds of activity you’re looking for, what time, and a price range if we haven’t spoken before about my rates. Simple, and to the point!

Foot Fetish: My Trainers Loves My Stinky Sweaty Feet

2020 Dec 29, | Feet, Fetish

Foot Fetish: My Trainers Loves My Stinky Sweaty Feet

Foot Fetish: From My Future Personal Trainer Dino

Absolutely. I will train u and yes I would love to rub your sweaty feet dry all over my face & goatee so the sweet smell of your feet stays in it so it is all I smell & taste. Absolutely lick them clean each & every time that is fucking really hot I love your feet!!!! I don’t even want to see ur feet dirty!! Sweaty sweet smelling yes, they’re too nice to be dirty well for me any ways, I want tk 1 day worship you in person. I think wed be pretty intense together, I don’t know If I’ve sent u a pic of me or not?? Not in the john not for my first exp with u. I want to enjoy every minute & taste u through the screen you could help me by sending me a couple pics of u in your filthiest of cream pies or to see your beautiful asshole, kind of like a consolation for 4 days of sore balls and precum stained underwear you can’t imagine how many times I had to stop on the treadmill because I started thinking of u & was getting rock hard in the gym, kind of hard to hide it.

Dino from Greece

RolePlay: Assertive Controlling TransWoman TSDee

2020 Oct 26, | Fantasy, Fetish, Roleplay

RolePlay: Assertive Controlling TransWoman TSDee

The Assertive Controlling TransWoman TSDee – Where Dominance Meets Intense Sexuality

“I want you to dominate me,” says the client.
“So you want me to tie you up?” I respond.
“Oh, no, i’m too nervous about bondage.”
“Perhaps pain is more your thing then?”
“Oh no, definitely not pain!”
“Fetish clothing perhaps – you want to be my little sissy, or wrapped in latex?”
“I think that’s too extreme for me.”
“Perhaps you’re more service oriented? Instead of all the trappings you just want to kneels at my feet and worship me?”
“Well maybe a little but eventually I was hoping you’d use me for your pleasure?”
“So you want sex?”
“Yes!”
“So you’re not really looking for BDSM – you want sex, but just with a more assertive, dominant woman?”
“Yes exactly”

The Assertive, Controlling Woman

This conversation has played out, for me, more often than I can begin to recount. Men think they want domination, but really they just want me to be in control. Which is fine!
To be honest, I’m more of a sensual woman, than I am into hardcore BDSM or pain. I call this persona The Assertive, Controlling Woman.

So what is she like?

She’s sensual, and sexual. Unlike some Pro Dommes, she’s not afraid to have sex with her clients. Rather than be a distant ice queen, she uses her sexuality to tease, torment, and reinforce her dominance.
She wants her partner to focus on pleasing her, of course, but she doesn’t necessarily need a lot of trappings. She wants you on your knees not just to look at but so she can put that mouth to good use.
The assertive, controlling woman knows what she likes in bed, and she’s not afraid to tell you what to do. And of course, she is always in control even from the bottom. Yes a true switch!

She cares for her lovers, though, like any good dominant should, and she always makes sure you leave satisfied – after you please her first.
In short, she is the perfect partner for someone looking to take the stress out of their meeting and let the woman do the work for a change. Someone who wants to please, and be pleased by a partner who knows what they want.

Does this sound like an experience you’d enjoy? Then give me a call! Experience her for yourself today.

Foot Fetish: TSDee is obsessed by women’s feet & her own

2020 Oct 25, | Feet, Fetish

Foot Fetish: TSDee is obsessed by women’s feet & her own

Defining Foot Fetish
Foot fetishism can be defined in many ways, but more often, it is thought of as foot worship. It is a pronounced sexual interest in feet and can have many variations in terms of what is sexually arousing about a foot. It could be deeply inhaling the smell of sweat on a woman’s foot combined with the scent of the leather shoes she wears that arouses. It could be the arch of a foot; wrinkled soles; spread out toes; long toes; polished toenails… many things or specific things can arouse a foot fetishist.

Foot Fetish – Dee’s Most Requested Experience
Foot fetish is one of Shemale Dee’s most popular requests. She has exquisitely pretty feet and loves to have her feet worshiped. Wrinkled soles. High arches. Spread toes. Red toenail polish. Trampling. Delicate feet. Smooth soles. Licking feet. Dirty soles. Sucking toes. Smelling feet. Nylon feet, Pantyhose feet, Naturally soiled. Naturally scented. … etc. Feet all over your face.

While Dee loves to have her own feet worshiped, she also adores women’s feet as well. You may often find her at Foot Fetish Nights hosted by Oasis Aqualounge, an upscale club located in downtown Toronto, Canada. Sometimes she finds herself as the object of desire while other times you will find her deeply inhaling the scent of a pretty woman’s feet.

Book a Foot Fetish Session Today
If you are aroused by any sense of feet, you need to schedule time with Toronto’s top t-girl, Dee. Please use the Contact tab at the bottom right of this page to schedule a foot session with TS Dee.

Feel free to share your foot fetish stories with me… I looooove hearing about foot fetish stories!

RolePlay Submission: TSDee A Professional Switch

2020 Oct 23, | Fantasy, Fetish, Roleplay

RolePlay Submission: TSDee A Professional Switch

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Submission to a True Domina

I recently had a contact online, with a Domina from Chicago, that got my dirty mind busy imagining a life of true submission. I have always had a submissive side, and I especially love submitting to dominant women; pleasing them, serving them, and worshiping their bodies.
But what would a real Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationship be like? How would it be like to truly give myself to a domina as her slave?

Earning My Place
One doesn’t just walk up and immediately start such a serious, submissive relationship of course. The honor of serving at the feet of one’s Mistress must be earned, over time, and multiple sessions – and appropriate tribute (of course). I fantasize about her putting me through my places as I serve in every kind of little way. Serving well would be rewarded, but failure punished, as she teaches me to serve the way she likes. I think how honored I’d feel when she finally allowed me to touch her perfect feet and legs and worship her body. Foot fetish as most of you know, and I adore body worship in general are more than a kink for me – they’re a lifestyle I long to share with a dominant woman.
As I learn to please her, I hope she would honor me with her praise and her arms around me. I like tenderness, even when I submit, but I also want very much to be made to prove my worthiness to a superior female.

A Lover and a Servant
Once she accepts me as her property, what would it be like to answer to her day to day? She might tell how to dress to please her, or how to schedule my time around her. She might change my diet or my lifestyle. I would obey, of course, eagerly as I know Mistress wants what’s best for me. Always, I would be at her disposal. Kinky fantasies are a favorite of mine, and I imagine helping her live out some of hers – whatever scenarios her wicked mind devises for me.
A true relationship is not built only on kinky fun, and sex ; nor even simply service, though. My ideal Mistress would be someone I could get to know and spend time with. We would be friends and lovers as well – someone I can talk to, long distance or in person.

Doing Business Together
Though BDSM is not my forte I have been in the kink community for over twenty years and an escort for the same amount of time. I would love to have a dominant lover I could work with on occasion as well, when a client called for both our skills.
The woman who inspired this little fantasy life doesn’t live here in Toronto, of course, but I do sometimes think of touring more often, and there’s something to be said for a relationship with a fellow pro – domme or escort – to share in-call spaces with when in town.

VIP Escort: I Love What I Do!

2020 Oct 22, | Companion, Escort

VIP Escort: I Love What I Do!

Escort VIP: I Love What I Do!

Recently I’ve begun promoting my services more aggressively on my site. Since I did, I’ve gotten messages from a number of guys who were surprised to see my ad again, because they thought I had retired… Really? A Google search for “TSDee” or “Shemale Escort Toronto” or 416 SHE MALE same as 416 743 6253 should get you to me.
Ha!
I love what I do here. I love my clients. And I’m not going anywhere anytime soon! But I did slow down for a little bit, and there’s a simple reason for that: this job can be stressful!

A Day in the Life
I get up every morning at 7am and my day starts with reviewing the texts, emails, and voice messages left for me over night while I slept. In total I answer over 300 individual texts and other messages throughout the course of an average day when I am advertising heavily. Many of those messages will be from people who are either complete time wasters, or are offering so little money its insulting, but the only way to know that is to interact with them since many of them only introduce themselves with one quick “hi” and no further information, sot hat takes time.
I start appointments at 9, though on most days my first client is more like 11. I am seeing clients on and off all the way into the evening on most days, and in between getting ready for, and recovering after each one, I need to find time to check my phone and respond to the furhter calls and messages that are coming in.
This is something many don’t understand about sexwork. The actual sex is a maybe 20 percent of an escort’s time. There’s another 10-30 percent taken up by preparing for meeting clients, making sure the space is ready, and so on. The rest is all marketing and talking to people.
In between there I try to find time to eat a healthy meal or two do some yoga, jogging, or other exercise, and generally attend to my health (it’s important to me to take care of myself both for the sake of my appearance, and for my health). I also have to find time to keep up with matters from my private life, whether that’s scheduling appointments, talking to family, or just buying groceries.
And unlike most jobs there are no weekends in this one. I can post a schedule that says “off on Sunday” but i guarantee that won’t stop some clients from writing to ask about it anyway.

Escort: The Oldest Profession Yesterdays Whores

2020 Oct 14, | Escort, Fantasy

Escort: The Oldest Profession Yesterdays Whores

The Oldest Profession Yesterday’s Whores – When Sex Work was Just Work

These days working girls have it hard. I occupy a position of relative privilege as a VIP Escort. My clients find me online and book with me by phone – no walking the streets in a short skirt hoping to be picked up by someone who’ll pay promptly and respect my limits. It’s a safer, more dignified way of doing things than some of my fellow providers endure.

But even I have to deal with constant harassment from boys who find entertainment in wasting a sex worker’s time or sending her rude messages. Also, with outright threats from people who are miffed when i won’t compromise on my limits. And like every sex worker I live under the constant low level fear of criminal prosecution because the government feels it’s appropriate to tell me what I can and can’t do with my own body.

This just hasn’t always been true! Throughout much if history providers were simply a part of society. Today is the first installment in a new series of occasional blog posts looking back on how past societies have regarded sex work. Today’s society in question: Ancient Rome!

RolePlay: Fantasies Of Teacher, Nurse, Aunty

2020 Oct 13, | Fantasy, Fetish, Roleplay

RolePlay: Fantasies Of Teacher, Nurse, Aunty

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Hello beautiful Lady Dee 🙂

I just wanted to say that I really enjoy scrolling through your website, unlike most of the others, yours is well built (just as you are hehe), your pictures are just mesmerizing and sensual….and that smile is such a nice sight. I also enjoy reading your posts, you seem like a very smart and interesting woman, i like how you can put your thoughts in words, and the way you describe your inner assertive woman is so well written, I mean I am not a writers critics or anything hehe but I can still recognize talent when I see it haha.

Anywho, I have been coming to scroll through your site for like a year and a half now, and I would really like to meet you someday, since the first time I have seen your photos and read about yourself, but I live in New-Brunswick so its a bit far. I once had a very nice time with a transwoman about two years ago, and i was the top because I was kinda scared of trying out her member but I since then wanted very much to try it out again, but explore a lot more of the transwoman form 😉 But as you may know, New-B is not quite the place to meet trans women, I mean there are some but they mostly are in it for the money, or men in wigs (I have to say that I have absolutely nothing against it, I’m just not attracted to them hehe).

I could travel to Quebec or Montréal, but again, most seem to be in it for the money so…. But when I found out about you, I knew that i had to go to “The Big ‘Ronto” and meet YOU. You look extremely hot and gorgeous and sexy etc.. you are intelligent, you say yourself that your main goal here is not money. You seem very kind and affectionate and caring for your partners needs. You are very experienced, and that is one of the best quality, I also like very much that you are so experienced in role-playing, i never had the chance to roleplay but I’m very interested in the subject, the nurse/patient fantasy, student hot for teacher, the boss letting the worker keep his job if he.. 😉 but now that i have read your posts, the Auntie Dee scenario is sooo hot, i mean its always, somehow, lurking in the back of my head hehe.

Also i have always had a thing for women older than me, yeah sure women in there 20’s look good, but there is just something about a woman being old enough to be my mother, that lights up a flame deep in me, and believe you are like gasoline to that flame hehe. Anyway, sorry for the long message, I’m sure you get messages like this one very often, but I really felt that I had to tell you how much good you can do without even ever speaking or seeing someone. You have given me a goal to work towards, and that goal is to meet you sometime this winter, but first I’ll have to meet you in the digital world, either through ChatCam or Skype or PhoneSex, we will talk soon 😉 Anyway, I hope i didn’t get you bored with my long letter of appreciation to you

🙂 Looking forward to finally meet you soon,

You are beautiful 🙂

D*** 🙂